What is love??
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength , While loving someone deeply gives you courage.
-LAO TZU
Love is nothing but the amount of time that you’re willing to spend with someone.If you observe social world then you conclude that. ” Social always comes with criteria and several conditions. ” Fortunately, love haven’t had that stuff. No matter who you are , Your complexion,Your religion,Your position , Your power… Nothing makes sense when we talk about love. This could be the probable reason, Everybody says “Love is blind”. There isn’t any parameter to measure the intensity of love but you can express it.
Let’s go with an example.Now you’ve to assume this hypothetical situation.
you got to know, it’s a last day of your life .(How would you spend that day??).Now love comes in a spotlight. If you think that you’re gonna spend that day with the one you love then congrats.
As we know love could be painful then How to deal with it??
Love’s flame is brightest in the darkness of the night.The word love which means the highest possibility of friendship , Either you love a person or thing ,you must have to ensure that love should be unconditional .As you know every coin has couple of outputs or sides. which means ,love even comes with several pain either it psychological or chronological that depends on your circumstances .So , let’s have a sight of life . Where you’re gonna love someone or something basically your passionate work or lovingly personality (irrespective of their complexion , religious background , nationality or gender) which causes pleasure or sometimes pain .Now ,to get a rid of this triumph (pain or pleasure) ,You should learn how to love yourself and your superior life and that’s possible only through solitude where you spend more and more time with yourself and gotta learn , how to live up .Remember, Self-love causes the enhancement of mental strength while solitude teaches ,How to deal with loneliness.
Is that material love required for human survival??
No one is parmanent . Probably you heard this lot of times, didn’t you??As I mentioned earlier the things which costs nothing to get.The unconditional love comes from your mom and the desirable transactions that get done by your dad .Now, Let’s add up something new to the party, but what?? Absolutely the 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐞𝐝𝐠𝐞 that comes from books …In the age of technologized world everyone gets seperated from the others but they don’t know that’s toxic,so what to do?? 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 no one is parmanent even your parents get 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐝 oneday .To get out of this dogma just let them 𝐠𝐨 those who won’t wanna live with you and always 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 newcomers in your life .Let me tell you the fact , According to the present data 95% billionaires got 𝐬𝐞𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 from their better half . Which means relationship never been long 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 if you think they should be then congratulations you’re 𝐨𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜. Doesn’t it sounds 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 hypothesis?? 𝐎𝐛𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐲 it does..So try to gotta 𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐚𝐠𝐞 with books and live up the only 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 relationship.
How to find a perfect partner to express love ? How to figure out right qualities of your partner??
” The only reality’s you and me “…Not an intentional love ….It’s terrible truth.If person pretends to live his entire life alone then that means, He’s lying… Really?? Yess.. buddy!As you know , Humans are social animal that they require someone for their survival cause ” Wherever there is life then interdependence comes into the spotlight” .quack, cluck, chatter….. What’s that??Bird sounds, Don’t they? Yeah! They’re . What do you think about this sound ” You and me” ? No idea… That’s a sound of love birds…Just kidding..” You and me” is a part of human behaviour but don’t let yourself be the part of this tag ” love birds”. ( Cause, this tag is enough to destroy your reputation, Especially in this age)In ” You and me” Me belongs to ourselves but ” You” could be anything like any hobby that makes you feel better. “You” might be your parents, places like garden, habits like playing, anything means anything….Even ” You” could be the soulless toy like a duck into your bathtub…
